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NW3Kids Dr. Linda Balazic www.naturalhealthchiro.co.uk
Lift
those baby blues with chiropractic treatments (before and after birth) March 2010
Most women get post-natal, or “baby”, blues at some point or another. It’s really no surprise.
A new mother’s body has gone through a tremendous amount of shock to nurture the baby and prepare for birth and this
can take its toll mentally as well. And once the baby is born, she can look forward to sleep deprivation as well as an
entirely new life-style.
Chiropractic
treatments can help expecting mothers by ensuring that joints get into good shape both before and
after the birth. They can also help with pain management.
During pregnancy,
problems crop up as the body struggles to cope with the huge changes placed upon it. The extra weight and the hormones can
lead to ligament laxity, which can, in turn, cause mild to severe pubic joint pain and low back pain. Other
joint pains, especially in the knees and hips, are not uncommon. Simple tasks like walking up stairs, getting on public
transport and carrying shopping bags can become a nightmare. And subsequent babies take an even greater toll,
especially on the neck and shoulders. Not only is the mother already taking care of an active child(ren) but she no longer
has time for relaxing bathes or soothing yoga classes. For working mothers, commuting
or sitting at a computer can compound any problem.
Chiropractic help locate and correct the structural
misalignment of the nervous system, spine and joints of the body. Treatments relieve pain and ensure the body is
functioning at its optimal level.
The chiropractic corrections, or what we call ‘adjustments’, are very specific
and are applied to the areas of the body that may have nerve interference. These adjustments are extremely
gentle. Personally, I use a light index finger contact and hold for a short period of time, with a quick release. It's
about the same amount of pressure one would use to test the firmness of a tomato. Sometimes I use an instrument called
an activator to help to achieve the same light touch.
The actual
birth process can also cause physical problems that chiropractic help alleviate. Some say having a baby is more
strenuous than running a marathon so it's no surprise that misalignment or injury to the pelvic joints
and ligaments can happen in even ‘ normal births’. Complications like prolonged labour, obstructions
to birth, multiple births, chemically assisted births, or pre-existing back problems aggravate the situation.
When a new
mother experiences pain, lifting a baby, breastfeeding or getting a restful sleep becomes very difficult. This can have
a huge impact on her state of mind and mood. A chiropractor can hopefully prevent
some of these painful aches with prenatal care and physically correct the problems as soon as possible postnatally.
Pregnancy and childbirth involves a huge lifestyle change and this is often a time of contrasting emotions.
For some women, it can be overwhelming. If I feel a patient's issues
are out of my scope of care (e.g. post natal depression or anxiety disorders) I will co-manage with a GP, counsellor or psychologist,
to get the emotional support and help needed. Camden council also have a website with a link to get extra help such as books
or confidential counselling.
http://www.camden.gov.uk/ccm/content/contacts/categories/contacts-for-post-natal-depression.en
The key: be well informed
and seek support when needed.
SKIING WITH KIDS (Feb. 2010)Skiing with children is great fun and it's a wonderful skill that is best learnt while young. Skiing
teaches kids how to pay attention, follow instructions, keep calm and persevere. It's also a great confidence booster
-- there's nothing like the feeling of swooshing down a tricky red slope. Having said this, skiing with little people
can be totally exhausting so consider the following two points when deciding whether to go. A. Unless you
plan to go often, there is such a thing as starting too young. I wouldn't sign him or her up with all-week ski
school until about age 5 or 4 for fairly sturdy, up-for-it kids. We started my middle son when he was three and
he was miserable. He did, however, learn how to say "I need a wee" in French! Some ski schools have 2-hour
"taster" courses for the undecided. B. Getting to the mountains can be a real hassle - especially if
you have car-sick children. Lots of resort are only accessible by car or bus - expect plenty of curves and a two to three
hour journey from various airports. If you're still keen on bringing your children to the slopes, your next
decision is: package holiday with a ski specialist, or do it yourself? There are lots of British companies that
organise the whole trip: air fare, transport from airport to accommodation, ski school for the kids, lift passes, ski rental,
all food and all childcare. You meet your dedicated coach bus at the airport, along with representatives who get you to your
chalet and chaperon you to the ski rental shop. Children are picked up early in the morning and either taken to
ski school or to daycare. They are returned to you in the evening or whenever you want to pick them up. Depending on how much
you are willing to pay, accommodation is usually chalet, which you share with other families. Every thing is handled in house
and you're assigned a chalet girl or boy who cooks and generally helps out. You really don't have to think about anything
or make any decisions, which can be quite nice as you have no admin whatsoever. However, all this
assistance comes at a steep price and in my opinion, it doesn't make for a very memorable holiday. Staff tends to
be quite young and dare-I -say-it a little inexperienced. Our chalet boy was charming and sweet but the food was diabolical.
His duck a l'orange was disrespectful to both ducks and oranges. He even managed to make fish fingers
taste like what I imagine yellow Lego would be like. Furthermore, I saw many hungover faces at the childcare centres. We had
a fun holiday but it wasn't an experience that my children will likely want to pass on to their children. Option
B. Take your chances and do everything yourself. Switzerland makes this quite easy as public transport is famously efficient
and they have a tradition of "Kinderhotels" that make travelling with children pretty easy. We've had great
success with the website www.myswitzerland.com I hear Austria is quite similar and much cheaper but I have no direct experience with this. I have two
recommendations in Switzerland. The Alpenhotel in Flims www.alpenhotel-flims.com : The big bonus here is the proximity to Zurich (and other) airport and the ease of the journey (no stomach
churning ascent). There is even an airport shuttle organised by the town (see www.laax.com) The hotel provides free childcare in the afternoons for over 3s, supervised dinner at 5:30 and a movie afterwords.
Great playrooms for little, medium and big children. For younger kids and non-skiers there is a crèche (not connected
to the hotel) at the base of the mountain (my 10 month-old loved it). The food at Alpenhotel is good (especially the breakfasts)
staff is great and they have wonderful little touches like free soup, coffee and cakes in the afternoon. They even have
a little stool at check in so kids feel part of the action. Pluses: really easy to get to; sweet hotel Minus: bit if a scrum to get the shuttle to ski school. Not too many easy blue runs on the mountain for beginners.
Hotel Alphubel www.hotelalphubel.ch in Saas Fee. Often number 1 on www.mumsnet.co.uk . The Supersaxo family go to extreme lengths to make this really fun for kids: fireworks, family ski races (with timers and
cowbells), kids discos, pizza making, sledding etc... Supersaxo son even puts on a giant (chicken?) outfit to entertain
the kids. Childcare (free) is provided for 2s and over by Heather, an extremely nice Manchester native who married into
the family. If your child attends ski school, you do need to pick them up from ski school at 1pm, feed them lunch, and then
put them back on the hotel shuttle for 2pm but the rest of the time you are free to ski. Our friend's toddler was really
happy the whole week. Talk to hotel about children younger than 2. Families who make the trek tend to come every
year (we've been 3 times.) Saas Fee the town is car free and very cute -- the glacier guarantees snow. The hotel
provides lockers at the bottom of the mountain for ski gear and they have a shuttle in the morning and evening. The one bummer
is Saas Fee is not particularly close to either Geneva or Zurich; you need to take a train to Visp and then a bus to Saas
Fee. I've made the trip several times and the trick is to travel as light as you can. If you want to bring your own skis,
you will probably need to rent a car. Pros: you are unlikely to forget this place and your kids will adore
it. Excellent value for money. Cons: While public transport is pretty good, as trains and buses are very efficient,
it makes for a long day.
Miscellaneous:
Ski School: The
worst part of the entire holiday is getting the kids ready for ski school, especially the first day. If you have opted for
the kinderhotel route, it's best to book ski school in advance. Call the ski schools directly or
go on line. NB: Don't try to pay tuition the morning ski school starts -- do it the day before (while you are
renting gear and arranging for lift passes) or you will be in a mile long queue. Make sure you are clear on where you
have to be and if you have all the correct form/lift passes (some ski schools include lift passes for children). If you are
worried about not speaking German, don't. Anyone in the tourist industry speaks English to a very high standard -- ski
teachers included. Ski school tends to last for a week, usually starting on Monday.
Have all gear out the night before. Getting two small children ready takes an insane amount of effort -- way, way, way
more than regular school. Put a snack in their jacket - chocolate covered granola bar is good Promise treats when you
pick them up. Make good on promise and double it if the weather was particularly foul.
Oh and make sure they use the toilet before putting on ski boots.
Clothing: Children
do love snow but if they are cold nothing is fun. As long as they are waterproof and made for purpose, ski jacket and
trousers don't need to cost a ton (I hear Aldi makes pretty decent ski gear if you don't want to invest too much).
And you certainly don't need high tech fleeces - any old one will do. But I wouldn't skimp on thermals, gloves
and socks. Snow and Rock has excellent (and appropriately expensive) gear and well trained staff to help
you.
Check list:
ski pant and jacket ski gloves ski socks thermal
shirt and thermal pants (good ones!) turtleneck shirt fleece balaklava that goes under helmet neck
warmer that can be pulled over the mouth and covers face
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We all know that accidents
can happen at any moment. It is impossible to watch our children all the time and there will always be
that unguarded moment. But at the same time we don’t want to wrap children in cotton wool – after all scrapes
and bruises are part of growing up. That said, accidents
are
the single greatest cause of death among children and young people in the UK and put more children in hospital than any other
cause. Many accidents can be prevented by putting the right safety measures in place and by learning basic first aid which
can help stop a minor injury becoming a major one and even make the difference between life and death. (www.capt.org.uk)One of the most common concerns
of parents is the possibility of their child choking. Not suprising as young children are forever putting
things in their mouth and even the most vigilant of parents might experience a child who starts to choke on a small object
or a piece of food. Grapes and small tomatoes are notoriously dangerous as if eaten whole they can get
stuck and obstruct a child’s breathing. (See below for details on how to deal with a choking child)Amy Dopson, a first-aid trainer and paediatric senior
sister in a Surrey hospital, sees many children in her casualty ward who have suffered a burn
and says that some parents are still not sure how to handle this sort of injury; “They
need to familiarise themselves with what to do , because immediate action can make a big difference
to the outcome.” she says: “If parents know what to do when a child suffers a burn or scald, we would have far
less need for skin grafts and plastic surgery.” If there is any question of electrocution, the golden rule is not to touch the victim
until the mains current is off and the child is no longer in touch with the source of electricity . If a burn
is from a fire, a hot surface, electric current or boiling water in the kitchen, the same rules apply. A young child’s
burn should always be seen by a doctor, preferably in an accident and emergency ward.
If your child suffers a burn or scald Treatment ·
Cool burn with cold running
water for at least ten minutes. If cold water is not available, use another cold,, harmless liquid, such as milk ·
Get medical help for any
burn or scald which is larger than a 50p coin· Remember to keep calm and give lots of comfort and reassurance to the
child · DO NOT remove burnt clothing which has stuck to the skin. Burnt clothing
is sterile and will protect the wound. · Remove carefully any jewellery, belts, restrictive
clothing or footwear (that is not stuck to the skin) from the injured area before it begins to swell ·
Cover the burn with a
clean, dry, non fluffy dressing and secure loosely. A plastic bag or piece of cling film are ideal ·
DO NOT put butter oil
or any sort of grease or lotion on a burn or scald – these can cause further damage and increase the risk of infection · DO NOT apply sticking plasters or any other type of adhesive dressing to the skin – they will cause pain and
damage when removed · DO NOT break blisters – you may introduce infection into the wound · DO NOT give the child anything to eat or drink with the exception of painkillers ·
Give the recommended dose
of children’s painkiller syrup
What to
do if your child chokes How can I tell that my child is choking?
- She may be gasping for air and
unable to breathe
- She may be holding
or clutching her throat
- She may be unable to
speak
- She may lose colour or look blue
What should I do? 1
Encourage
your child to cough. If this does not quickly release the object: 2
Bend your child forward from the waist so that the head
is lower than the chest and give 5 sharp back slaps between the shoulder blades. 3
If the object
is still not released give up to 5 abdominal thrusts: kneel or stand behind your child with both arms around their waist.
Make a fist with one hand and place it just above the belly button (below the ribs) with your thumb inwards. Grasp this fist
with the other hand. Thrust sharply inwards and upwards. Try this up to 5 times. Check between thrusts and stop if you clear
the obstruction. 4
If the obstruction
is still not cleared repeat steps 2 and 3. Ask someone to dial 999 for an ambulance. 5 Be prepared to resuscitate if the child stops breathing. The above is not a substitute for professional first aid training. For details of paediatric first aid courses in
your area please call safe and Sound on 0208 445 8998 or go to www.safeandsound.uk.net For
information about Safe and Sound Paediatric First Aid Courses www.safeandsound.uk.net or email info@safeandsound.uk.net tel: 0208 445 8998 --------------
Eye Examinations for Children (December 2009)
When Should Children See an Eye Doctor? Just as taking
care of your child’s teeth is important, so too is having their eyes examined by an Optometrist. Children’s eye
examinations are nothing to worry about. They are tailored to your child’s age and can be done from the age of 3 onwards.
In fact pre-school eye examinations are vital to ensure that your child’s eyes are developing
normally. Children often do not communicate any visual problems as they do not know what to expect from their eyesight. Warning signs to look out for that may indicate your child is having difficulty seeing include:
·
Screwing eyes up and straining eyes · Poor hand/eye co-ordination
and increased clumsiness ·
Eye rubbing, frequent blinking and watery eyes · Poor concentration and difficulty
at school ·
Headaches A full eye examination carried out by an Optometrist
will assess your child’s distance and near vision, eye movements, focusing ability, peripheral awareness and general
eye health including colour blindness. An eye examination will also screen for amblyopia (lazy eye) and strabismus (turning
eye/squint) Amblyopia = where one eye is weaker and cannot
see the same amount of detail as the fellow eye. This can prevent the two eyes working together and make depth perception
and binocular vision difficult. Strabismus = where one eye
appears to turn in or out either constantly or when concentrating or tired. This will also disrupt development of normal binocular
vision. Both these conditions are prevalent in childhood and have many different causes. They need to be diagnosed and investigated
promptly. Early intervention will allow a chance for normal sight to develop. If necessary your child can be referred to a
paediatric ophthalmologist for further treatment. If a focusing
problem is found during the eye examination, corrective glasses can be prescribed. Fortunately, these days there is plenty
of choice in children’s eyewear and glasses can be fashionable, functional and fun.
The NHS will even contribute to a portion of the cost of children’s
glasses.
Eye examinations are available FREE on the NHS for; - Children under the age of 16 - Youngsters
between ages 16 to 18 who are still in full time education Eye
examinations are a vital health check to ensure healthy eyes and normal sight. Healthy eyes and good eye sight is critical
to your child’s educational and social development. Early intervention will allow a chance for normal visual development
and have less impact on your child’s ability to read, write and play. At Perspective Optometrists we provide a welcoming and child friendly environment. As an Optometrist I have over
10 years of experience in paediatric eye care and have a specialist diploma in the subject. We have taken care to source a
wide range of children’s spectacles and sunglasses. Appointments are available Monday to Saturday between 9.30am –
5.30pm. With FREE NHS eye examinations available there really is no reason not to have your child’s eyes checked regularly.
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HOW TO
CHOOSE A GOOD NANNY (Nov. 2009) |
 4 Sunnyside, Childs Hill, London, NW2 2QN Tel:
020 7435 3891 www.londonnanny.co.uk londonaupair.nannyagency@virgin.netMaggie Dyer, owner of The London Au Pair & Nanny Agency, has been finding help for families for over
30 years. Ms. Dyer writes about what training and qualities to look for, as well as how to tell if you have found the
right person. How to choose a good nanny!
There comes the time in every new parent's life when she (or he!) has
to hand the baby over to someone other than family. Whether it's for a couple of hours to catch up on shopping and
send emails, or full time to go back to work, at some point that door will have to close behind you. But how do you find the
right person? And what qualities and experience do you look for?
To begin with, up-to-date paediatric first-aid and CPR is a must. In addition, I would look
for a minimum of two years' sole-charge experience for very young babies and toddlers. Formal training is helpful,
of course, but you can't beat experience. Toddlers need a nanny who has seen it all
-- with eyes in the back of her head! She must not only understand toddler tantrums, but also must follow
the guidance of the parents when dealing with those tantrums.
An au pair should not have sole-charge of under-3s in the absence of working parents. She
just doesn't have the skills. Au pairs are simply foreign language students, studying here and "helping"
for around 5 hours a day. They help with childcare and they help with household chores. They are not nannies and
they are not housekeepers.
Once you are satisfied that a potential nanny/babysitter has the right
experience, move on to the next level. Good eye-contact during
the interview is crucial, and she should be able to answer your questions directly and honestly.
It is of course important that she has a good co-parenting relationship with you, but the most important
thing to look for is how she reacts with your child. Children follow their instincts. Before
hiring your nanny, have a trial of half a day or so to see how she bonds with your baby. You will get the best feedback of
all, on your chosen nanny, when you see your baby's mood when nanny hands over to you at the end of her working day.
The final stage of hiring a nanny is perhaps the most important: Don't employ anyone without
speaking with their previous employers, even if a nanny agency tells you that they have checked the references.
A nanny's first month should be a two-way trial, to see how everyone fits in.
How can you tell how things are going? Apart from the very early
days, your baby should be delighted when your nanny walks into the house. When looking after your baby,
you will have all sorts of other jobs to do at the same time - multi-tasking is the young mum's role! Your
nanny's time is specifically dedicated to your baby who will probably squeal with delight when she first catches
sight of her. It is not unusual for the baby to cry when handed over to the parent. Don't feel threatened
and don't take it personally - be happy that your baby loves the person who is caring for her while you are absent.
But sometimes things don't work out. It is best to be honest when giving a nanny a reason for terminating her employment.
If not, she will go to an agency or on interview with other families and she will be, unknowingly, dishonest about why she
is leaving her job. This gets very tricky when the agency or a future employer is reference-checking.
I have run The London
Au Pair & Nanny Agency for 30 years and I am very aware of the huge responsibility that I have. Families
trust me. If I hear any complaints at all it is that we don't send enough nannies for interview. I
admit it. There are a lot of agencies who will send the CV of every nanny on their books to every family that asks for a nanny.
We are selective - we won't waste your time.
Finally, don't be intimidated
by the paperwork!The easy way out of having to figure out taxes for nannies is to use a good payroll service.
We recommend way2paye www.way2paye.co.uk.
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